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you can remove this if you don't have a conscience. i assure you i will not hunt you down.
skin by: Jane
Sunday, September 16, 2012 @ 1:10 AM
放开

当你接受完美不存在时,失望就会消失。
不完美能包含缺陷美,学会如何欣赏不完美是人生重要的一堂课。
我并不是世界的中心,世界万物也不会围着我转。
没尝过严重的挫折,结果一直在自我设下的框框打转。
放不下,放不开,裹足不前,郁郁寡欢。

所谓的原则与自尊心,究竟是值得赞赏还是是种逃避的借口?

放开放开。。。



Saturday, September 15, 2012 @ 12:57 AM
杜拉拉升职记 - 观后感

对上司A的恶意对待 - 坚守原则,问心无愧。适当的反击,别一味地默默承受。
离职的上司发了email - 她感谢了拉拉。原来,她已忘了当初对工作,同事与公司的热忱,也渐渐的把输赢看的太重。突然的觉悟让她终于学会放得下。

对上司B的诬赖 - 仍是坚守原则,但或许太嫩了,看不见人生中的身不由己。
她算是拉拉的导师,拉拉也视她为偶像。但最终天使的光环灭了,向往的榜样也消失了。也曾以为她是个朋友,但始终在职场上找个朋友是难上加难。

对朋友的改变 -
曾以为念书时的友谊是纯的,也庆幸还有真心朋友能促膝谈心。但职场的可怕是能改变一个人,在你不在意时其实已成为一个曾熟悉的陌生人。

满腔热血地迈入人生的另一阶段,却发现憧憬是恶梦的面具。失望之余,或许人心的非议莫测才真的令人心寒。大家都曾经过这个阶段,而生存的似乎就是渐渐接受游戏规则的人。或许唯独没了利益冲突,关系才能少了多余的负担,多一些真诚。偶像,榜样 - 都是幻觉,靠近一点就会看见它的破灭。



Wednesday, September 05, 2012 @ 12:14 AM
1 + 1 =/= 2

其实,1+1 不一定等于2.

人生,不需要看得那么透。
事情,不需要看得那么清。

敞开胸怀,将会更开心。



Sunday, September 02, 2012 @ 2:22 AM
Happy Teachers' Day

Happy Teachers' Day!

The last I celebrated this was 5-6 years ago, during JC days. Even so, it wasn't that big a hu-ha as in in secondary school days. And I kinda missed those days when I'd crack my head trying to think of an appropriate gift for my teachers and many a times, attempting to custom-make something for them.

Couldn't emphasize enough how important many teachers were to me over the years. Can never thank them enough. I have stopped visiting schools and teachers, though I'd pretty much like to keep in contact with them actually - inertia...

Seeing facebook posts on teachers' day, and photos of young students with their teachers made me think back on my student and relief teaching days. Teaching's really a noble job and seeing the students grow is really gratifying...